Camping Or Bust!!!

Okay, lets catch up on what has been going on this last week! Well, after the Dunes we were thinking that we would stay home for Memorial Day but on Friday, I woke up and thought… “I really want to go camping” and so halfway through the day Mark called me and said “So, how bad to you really NOT want to go camping” and I just laughed and told him that I was packed and ready to go. So he came home early and off we went!

We went to the Uinta Mountains…Marsh/Bridger Lake area with Jill & Josh and Josh’s family! It was a fun time. There were lots of kids there so Tyce wasn’t bored. At Wal-Mart last week, I found these large size plastic safari animals and dinosaurs for only $.88 a piece! I got a ton! And the kids had so much fun playing with those in the dirt! Tyce got really dirty but had a blast. It wasn’t even too cold like it usually is up there! But it is funny that just the weekend before we were cooking our clothes right off at the Dunes and now we were in 3 layers. Crazy stuff but one thing I love about Utah!

Mark, Tyce and I went fishing and Tyce got to touch his first fish…but really he was more interested in throwing rocks in the water and trying to get IN the water…which had an immediate drop off. No thanks…I’ll hold on to you! Luckily, he didn’t fight me too much!

When we got home, again, I had like 9 loads of laundry to do. Ah, the days of a domestic goddess! Oh yea, want to hear something gross? When Tyce was having his bath after we got home, he pooped in the water and then picked it up and threw it out of the tub. YUCK!! Needless to say…we had to empty the bath, sanitize the tub and start all over again. Nasty! At least I got out of having to change a dirty diaper huh? I am not quite sure what is worse though!

On a much more serious note, I ask that you please pray for my Grandma Lenk. She had to have surgery last night because she fell and shattered one of her lower legs. She will be wheelchair bound for 2 months so after my Aunt leaves…Tyce and I are flying to WA to spend a week taking care of Grandma…the middle of June. My grandma is strong and will make a full recovery (I hope and pray) so hopefully she can reschedule the trip she was leaving on in 2 weeks. Her and her friend Arlene were heading to Africa. They are so upset that the trip is not going to happen…but hopefully it can next summer! Luckily Grandma bought insurance so she will get her money back, but still. I may consider driving if any of you Tri-Town girls want to go on a road trip in a couple weeks? Lindsay...Lacie?

On to better news…We did it!!! We sent in our application for our next adoption. So the ball is rolling! Next, our bishop will send his letter of recommendation and 4 of our friends/family will get their recommendation letters/questionnaires in the mail to fill out and send in. Then we will have an intake interview and then sign up for the next classes, which are in July! I am so ready to start again and hopefully Tyce and the next baby will be close in age! We are already talking to Tyce about it but obviously he just doesn’t care much! LOL!! He just repeats the word...beebee! Cute!

So that is it for now...I will keep you all updated on Grandma and the journey of Adoption #2!

Random Thoughts and Desires...get comfy!

Okay...so, I WANT ANOTHER BABY!!! I know that Tyce is only 17 months old and that it would be better to wait a little longer to have another baby (which will no doubt happen anyway) but I am dying here. The desire for another baby, so far, is not nearly as desperate and mind numbing/consuming as it was while we were waiting for Tyce but it is getting there. I am soooooo excited to start the adoption process again and for some reason I feel that our next baby is already conceived...or will be very soon. I have days where I know it will be a girl and then the next day I think it may be a boy. So as far as that goes...I really don't care.

Tyce is becoming Daddy's little shadow and when he is home, I am feeling left out. Now, I have no interest in tools, building things and working in the yard but there is really nothing better than watching Mark teach Tyce all the "guy" things that go on around my house. So, with that said...I am excited to bring home a little girl who will be my shadow. Who will want to learn all the things that I enjoy, like sewing quilts, scrapbooking, sitting in cozy comfort and read a good book, shopping till we are beyond broke, etc. Don't get me wrong...my poor Tyce is stuck with me all day and I promise that I will teach him these things too so he is well rounded just like his Dad! Yes, Mark is more domesticated than he lets on.

And then there is the desire for another dirty little boy to love until my heart explodes just like it does every time I look at my son. Even when Tyce is throwing his famous tantrums...I find myself feeling so lucky and happy to HAVE a child in my home that tests my patience and throws toys when he is mad because that means that I have a child...that I am a MOM and that he feels comfortable in our home and with me enough to express himself without fear of corporal punishment. And let's face it...you all know that sometimes those tantrums are so ridiculous that we just have to laugh!

I would love more than anything to have a little brother...a little playmate for Tyce who is no younger than 2 years Tyce's junior. How amazing that would be? They could play in the mud together, fix things (or more like, break things) together. They could go on father/son camp outs with their dad. I can't wait to pack the trailer and backpacks with all kinds of mommy goodies for my guys so they can be full while they are discovering new worlds together. I can't wait for my boy(s) to grow up and "protect" me and their little sister (if I get my way)!! Okay...so I really can wait but when the time comes...I can imagine myself looking up into Tyce's beautiful blue eyes and being as proud as can be.

I know it is a mom's right to make plans for her son...and so that is what I do. I picture Tyce going into the MTC and serving a mission honorably like his Dad. I see him taking a beautiful girl to the Temple and starting his own family. I see him being mine and Mark's best friend when he is all grown up...just like my Mom and I are best friends now that I am an adult. I don't know what Tyce will be when he grows up. He will work for Mark for his first job...that I know. He just enjoys all things his Dad enjoys...so it makes sense to me. But, eventually, I can see Tyce going to college and excelling in whatever he takes interest in. He is so smart and witty and he has a personality that attracts everyone around him. He is the center of attention.

I tend to get ahead of myself, don't you think? I hope that all that wonderful future I wish for takes a long time to get here. I want to enjoy my little family for a long time to come. But if years keep flying by like they have been...it will be here before I know it. I see us as the Nielsen's. For those of you who don't know them, they are the family that "adopted" Mark when he was in High School. Their oldest son, Bryan was Mark's best friend. We are very close to this family and they are my guiding light. They have 4 kids. All wonderfully good people. 2 boys, 2 girls. Both boys served missions, both girls married in the Temple to wonderful men. Bryan married in the Temple to a now dear friend of mine.

I want to sit in the Temple some day with my husband, mom, grandma and all my kids. I want lots of kids. I pray for lots of kids. I have so much love to give and lucky Tyce gets to get more kisses than he can handle. For his sake...I pray for another baby soon. I know that is unreasonable to think that we will ever have several kids. We just can't afford them. I feel very blessed to have Tyce and I know for sure (in my heart) that we have another one coming but I really would like at least 3 and hopefully 4. That will take some convincing though. Mark is good with 2! LOL!! It's all in God's plan right? He knows what and who we need and when they get here...they will be very loved!

Well, this has turned into a long rambling and I am sorry for all who had to read it but these are my random thoughts for the day. Now I am off to Google adoption stuff because from now until our next baby comes home...I will be an obsessed woman!! Hang on, all you readers, for my emotional adoption ride. It will all be blogged!!

Birth Families ROCK!!!!

Here is a picture of Tyce and his birth Dad, Jami. We just got back from a camping trip with Jami, his mom and dad, sisters, brothers and their families!! We had an amazing time! I am so glad that we have an adoption as open an ours is...it is truly a blessing! We went to the Dunes in central Utah. Tyce had a blast getting dirty and he actually even let Jami hold him twice. If you know my son...you know what a positive thing this is!

It was so HOT. Imagine being in the middle of the desert and 85 degrees. That was about what it was like...except for the extras like water, food, friends...oh yea, and air conditioned trailers! LOL!! And of course the otter pops in our camper freezer!

It must be hard on Tyce's birth families to see him as OUR son. This is just my opinion. They say that it helps them be reassured that adoption was the right choice for Tyce (I completely agree)!! But for me, it would be a very hard thing to see. To each his own right? They recognized us 100% as Tyce's parents and there were no issues there...which can always be a concern. We are truly blessed by this situation and I just pray that our next adoption is as wonderful as this one!! How loved Tyce will feel growing up. They will be able to show him and tell him that he was and is loved and wanted by his Birth Families as well as by HIS family...being us of course!!

I love talking about open adoption! It does my heart good! I love my husband for the amazing father that he is and my son is the light of my life! I never thought I could love so much. I just can't wait to add to our family and in the process...add another branch to our very close family friends, being, another birth family!!

By the way...how cute is my little baby with his cutie patutie baby crack hanging out of his pants?! LOL!! Oh, how fast they turn into little men!

There is no greater love in the world than the love of a mother to her child

Maybe one of these days I will write more than one blog a month! We'll see. I just felt that I needed to put my emotions on paper in regards to Tyce's birthmom, McKelle on this Mother's Day season. How grateful I am for this woman who gave my son life...and then gave him the life she wanted for him and in the process, she made Mark and I a family. I love my husband so much, even more so now as I see him interact with our son in a way only a father can. I love when Tyce wakes up in the morning and askes for his Daddy!! My heart wants to explode. Mark and I definately have our rolls in Tyce's eyes. Mark is the best buddy and teacher of all things boy and I am the nurturer, disciplinarian who give safe boundries and the feeder of hungry babies! LOL!! I kiss the owies and make them all better...for Mark and Tyce both.

My heart was full to again wake up on Mother's Day and actually be a mom! There is nothing better in this life than having the opportunity to serve one of God's special children. I have such a closeness with McKelle and I love her with all my heart. I will express this love to Tyce so that he has the same kind of love and admiration toward her as Mark and I do. On Mother's Day this year...I got a package from McKelle. It was a willow tree statue of a mother angel holding a sleeping toddler. It reminded me of how big Tyce is getting because the last statue we got from her...the baby was a newborn. Sad.

I am so ready for another baby! We will be submitting our papers again in a couple months when the next classes start. How I hope our next baby is close to coming home to us! Tyce will be such an amazing Big brother.

I have much more I want to write about but I have to go pick up my little man from Grandma's house. Such adventures he had today I am sure and I can't wait for him to tell me all about them in his baby jabber!! Music to my ears!

Oh, we are going camping this weekend with Tyce's birth dad, Jami, and his family. I will write all about it on another post when we get back!! Such fun!! Yea for summer!!!